Long Distance Relationship =)

i was browsing Youtube & accidentally found this video, i forgot what was the key search, i just found that this video is awesome & represents my feelings lately ;)

yea, it's about a long distance relationship. i know you guys 90 % believe that i won't work well ( sometimes i am inside the 90 % too ) and the other 10 % is the only one who believe in LDR / maybe they dont have any other choices. So, what's yours ?
Lots of my friends / family said that it will NEVER WORK. i know, because i myself used to not believe at Long Distance Relationship. I once said, "No way, i will never do the long distance part, it will never work & i dont believe it ! no way ! HELL NO ! i better not to start it, yes I promise i will never do that !"
and.. taaa-daaaa.. HAHAHAHA.. feels like wanna slap myself, im going to this long distance activities.. **WEIRD i know,i myself sometimes feel weird too HAHAHA** feels like got a KARMA because i always said to my friends, dont hope too much, it won't work, trust me ! okayy.. im sorry my fellow friends ! im doing this kind of relation too *shy face*

owkay, feel interested with this kind of Long Distance Relationship, i read from Lovesagame.com and there are some tips how to make the LDR works, it's quite interesting i guess.

1. Have a Relationship Plan for the Future
It is very important that you both have a hope to live for. Have a light at the end of the tunnel. I think that this is the most common reason why some long distance relationships don’t work: they don’t have a plan, they just hope it will turn out right, that a miracle is going to happen.

2. Meet Regularly
Try to see each other every month at least once ( okat let's say every year? HAHA *cheering up myself* ) Plan this ahead and include some activities, like town visits, museums, a weekend in a fancy hotel, etc. Make it a celebration, an explosion, something very special!
You don’t get scent with email or skype, or that initial wow you feel inside when you see your love.

3. Use Modern Technologies to Communicate
Using all this electronic stuff will make it much easier for you both. Imagine how it used to be 100 years ago, when a letter used to take months.
- Get an e-mail account if you do not have one and write at least one e-mail to each
other every day
- Use Skype or something similar to talk to each other for free. Believe me, it’s
awesome watching a movie together while simultaneously talking on Skype.
( i thankyou whoever you are who invented SKYPE. you guys are AWESOME ;P )
- Use Instant Messaging (I MSN Messenger / BLACKBERRY FOR SURE =P )
- Use a webcam (this I can highly recommend and so true HAHA )

4. Be Honest & Keep Communicate
Remember to be honest in everything you do. Trust is the most important things since you two are seperated in a distance. Keep communicate & update the news on what's going on in your life, sharing some thoughts, stories, and for sure happiness onto each others. It makes both of you feel more comfortable

5. LAST BUT NOT LEAST, never stop believing =)
To be in love means eager to take the risks, whatever it takes, good/bad, we'll never know if we're not trying.

above all, the most important things is :
You've come this far. There's no way you're giving up. Just believe.

Just like the video said, Together At Last, how far the distances & miles seperate you two, if it is meant to be, it is meant to be, just keep on believing.


Together At Last

:)


x.o.x.o